Spaces in your togetherness
You were born together, and together you shall be forevermore.You shall be together when the white wings of death scatter … Continue reading Spaces in your togetherness
5 poems by Khalil Gibran
1 One day you will ask me which is more important? My life or yours?I will say mine and you … Continue reading 5 poems by Khalil Gibran
a diss track
Harsh words, unkind remarksOne day after the otherFor reasons that you cannot justify,When I’ve been nothing but Kind and respectfulTowards … Continue reading a diss track
Autopilot
Most of the things we do every day we do on a autopilot mode. Without paying much attention, we do … Continue reading Autopilot
learning to love myself
What is it like to love yourself?I am not sure,but maybe when you like yourself,You appreciate all your qualities,And start … Continue reading learning to love myself
pretty girl
Today on InstagramI saw a pretty girlShe had the same body type as mineAfter years of believing That I am … Continue reading pretty girl
inner voice
“This is soo cool! Mom, Dad can I try it?”“No” they said. “Don’t do it.”“You will get hurt”“You will break … Continue reading inner voice
brat
When they do something wrongI cannot say a wordI cannot protest I cannot tell them it’s wrongI cannot react the … Continue reading brat
courage
It takes a lot of courageTo live your best lifeTo be your true selfTo stand up to your friendsAnd the … Continue reading courage
Modern Family
One Modern Family episode a day keeps the boredom away. I started watching Modern Family last year and it has … Continue reading Modern Family
beauty around
There is so much beautyThat I get to witnessIn this worldCute puppies, beautiful flowers,My love goofing around and being cute,Kind … Continue reading beauty around
it was you
What other choice did I have?I’d look into the futureAnd see you and meDrifting apartBut it was too soon to … Continue reading it was you
what hurts more
It took me a while to realise That losing youWasn’t the worst thingThat could happen to meWorst was losing myselfIn … Continue reading what hurts more
crossroads
Is it wrong to think that you are better off from here?Is it wrong to also wish certain things to … Continue reading crossroads
what they say vs what they mean
Behind the anger of “Why are you still on your phone?” They slightly whisper “Please come and talk to us, … Continue reading what they say vs what they mean
musings
How can someone be harshTo a kind hearted person?Can’t they sense their pure intensions?Don’t you feel guiltyAfter giving hate to … Continue reading musings
longing
I remember that dayWe were arguing aboutWho has control over my heartI said that it was meBut clearly I liedNow … Continue reading longing
Memories
Its your memories that haunt meI try hard to escape their gripBut nothing seems to helpMy mind works against my … Continue reading Memories
Choice
Isn’t it brave of youTo do the opposite ofWhat has been done to youAs you saw the consequencesOf their actionsAnd … Continue reading Choice
Rediscover yourself
What a beautiful feeling it is,To rediscover yourselfAfter the storm has passed.To explore your interestsAnd accept your messy self To … Continue reading Rediscover yourself
10 things we all have in common
1. We experience more or less the same set of emotions. This helps us understand how the other person is … Continue reading 10 things we all have in common
Writing for myself
Hello guys, how are you doing? Hope you all are enjoying the new year and taking care of yourself at … Continue reading Writing for myself
When do you feel awe?
I am not talking about the time when you go “awwwwwwww”. I am talking about the moment when you gasp! … Continue reading When do you feel awe?
Things we do for love
Isn’t it weird? The things we do for love…Sometimes we go all in and do every single thing we can … Continue reading Things we do for love
Getting over someone
Maybe there is no set process of getting over someone There are times when you don’t think of them at … Continue reading Getting over someone
Life of an overthinker
When I am in a group of people, I think of something to say And then I think about whether … Continue reading Life of an overthinker
distractions and priorities
I watch motivational videosAnd get mad at myselfFor not working hard enoughFor procrastinatingFor wasting time overthinkingBut in this modern ageOf … Continue reading distractions and priorities
Why do you love someone?
Hmm… That’s a tricky question. Why did I love him? Because he is a wonderful person. There were a few … Continue reading Why do you love someone?
What I’ve learnt after journalling for 3 years
– If it is not going to matter in few days or maybe after a month, there is no point … Continue reading What I’ve learnt after journalling for 3 years
The “honest” resume
Okay soo… These days I was working on my resume and I realised something very obvious – the resumes should … Continue reading The “honest” resume
The Insta detox
Soo… For those of you who don’t know, I have deactivated Instagram. Its been over 2 months now. At first … Continue reading The Insta detox
Meaningful moments
Q – When do you experience little meaningful moments in your life? – When I write– When I read– When … Continue reading Meaningful moments
Things that changed after I got a job
Umm… There are many things that changed actually. I’ll be honest and list a few most important ones here. So … Continue reading Things that changed after I got a job
People who are good at persuasion
So, to be honest I am not good at persuading someone to do something. I cannot even convince my friends … Continue reading People who are good at persuasion
Positive conversation starters
How do you break the ice and start having fun conversations? Don’t ask me. I’m asking you! Okay, maybe I … Continue reading Positive conversation starters
Ellen’s tips on happiness
Happiness is a journey. This means that happiness is like a long car ride. Let’s say you’re in a car … Continue reading Ellen’s tips on happiness
When did you realise you are a grown up?
I mean….my mom always makes sure to remind me that I am a grown up whenever I do anything dumb. … Continue reading When did you realise you are a grown up?
Why do I use LinkedIn?
There are many reasons why I use LinkedIn. Other than me getting a job, which is obviously the first reason. … Continue reading Why do I use LinkedIn?
What motivates you?
What motivates you? What keeps you going? – Books– People– Travel– Inspiring stories– My parents– My friends– Kind words– Kind … Continue reading What motivates you?
Savouring the rains
Ah! Rains….. I always fell short of words while describing rain… How can one describe something so beautiful so magical … Continue reading Savouring the rains
How to make good things better
I was talking to my friend yesterday. We didn’t meet this year at all. Since the lockdown it has been … Continue reading How to make good things better
Do you watch reality shows?
Since a few years, watching reality shows together every weekend has been a tradition in my family. And I loveee … Continue reading Do you watch reality shows?
What else can you ‘be’ when you don’t want to be positive
These days it’s hard to be Positive about certain things. I do not know how everything is going to work … Continue reading What else can you ‘be’ when you don’t want to be positive
growing and improving
Why waste time proving over and over how great you are, when you could be getting better? Why hide deficiencies … Continue reading growing and improving
Small ways to apply growth mindset in daily life
No matter what your ability is, effort is what ignites that ability and turns it into accomplishment. – Carol Dweck … Continue reading Small ways to apply growth mindset in daily life
Are you making your own sandwich?
When the lunch whistle blew, all the workers would sit down together to eat. And every day, Sam would open … Continue reading Are you making your own sandwich?
Being satisfied or wanting more?
When you are just starting out, there is this constant struggle to weather be satisfied with what you have or … Continue reading Being satisfied or wanting more?
autobiography in five short chapters
II was walking down the street.There is a deep hole in the sidewalk.I fall in.I am lost… I am helplessIt … Continue reading autobiography in five short chapters
What is a Positivity ratio?
Oh yes! There is a Positivity ratio. It is the ideal ratio of positive to negative events in our life … Continue reading What is a Positivity ratio?
Look what you made me do
Look what you made me doLook what you made me doLook what you just made me doLook what you just … Continue reading Look what you made me do
observe
I wonder how it was possible to walk for an hour through the woods and see nothing of note. I … Continue reading observe
safe place
Oh the comfort,The inexpressible comfortOf feeling safe with a personHaving neither to weigh our thoughts,Nor words,But pouring them all right … Continue reading safe place
awe
One summer night, out on a flat headland, all but surrounded by the waters of the bay, the horizons were … Continue reading awe
Should you always be positive?
The truth is that our finest moments are most likely to occur when we are feeling deeply uncomfortable, unhappy or … Continue reading Should you always be positive?
Explaining growth mindset with the help of a movie
I am currently reading a book called ‘Mindset’ by Carol Dweck. The woman who did wonderful research in this field … Continue reading Explaining growth mindset with the help of a movie
Hard work
I work hard Not because I “believe I deserve everything” Not because I “want to be perfect” Not because I … Continue reading Hard work
What adulting looks like
– you have to make commitments and follow through them. Even if sometimes things are not in your favour you … Continue reading What adulting looks like
loving and kind
Being independent is cool But that doesn’t mean You’re not dependent on your loved ones For their love and care … Continue reading loving and kind
reality
When things are not going well… Especially these days. I have found myself wishing that in few years everything will … Continue reading reality
A game that will help you live in a better way
Hello there! Beautiful people, I am back with a fun and interesting psychology game for y’all. Hope you enjoy it! … Continue reading A game that will help you live in a better way
hold it close
When you want to feel loved When you want to feel confident When you want to feel happy But you … Continue reading hold it close
When you are scared to try new things
Public speaking? No way! I remember saying this a lot. Though I wanted to try public speaking deep down, I … Continue reading When you are scared to try new things
Mine
You stay in my heart Like my heartbeat And pump out love That nourishes my soul © Vrunda Chauk Continue reading Mine
Okay I study +ve psychology but…..
Okay I admit it I study positive psychology But I can be very negative sometimes… (Tbh positive psychology encourages you … Continue reading Okay I study +ve psychology but…..
alive
How can you expect me To forget you To carry on with my life When you were the one Who … Continue reading alive
no drama
Before I met you I was prepared For every possible struggle Little did I knew This time it was going … Continue reading no drama
This is the reason you are not happy
I remember the time when I went on my first date with my boyfriend. It was a beautiful rooftop restaurant … Continue reading This is the reason you are not happy
Enchanting love
I saw love Like a firefly Moving swiftly through the wilderness I was enchanted by its beauty For I had … Continue reading Enchanting love
Let’s talk
Hi folks, I am so happy that this blog has grown to have more than 1530 followers!! In just two … Continue reading Let’s talk
In one word this book is – wisdom
There aren’t many times when you stumble upon a fantastic book like this one. When I picked up “Positivity” it … Continue reading In one word this book is – wisdom
Passion or purpose
On days like these When I feel hopeless about future And feel like no matter what I do many situations … Continue reading Passion or purpose
How to really make good connections?
You are standing in the room with people all around you. But you still look into your phone. You don’t … Continue reading How to really make good connections?
Resilience
The secret to resilience Is not being closed off It’s not avoiding negative events altogether It’s not “playing it safe” … Continue reading Resilience
Capitalise on happy moments
When your partner shares something positive with you You have the option To think about it as bragging and brush … Continue reading Capitalise on happy moments
The Grit Quiz
Let’s test how much you know about Grit. If you don’t, you’re welcome to find out more about it! 1. … Continue reading The Grit Quiz
You’ve a choice
If you are facing a setback – Something out of your control You don’t know how to deal with it … Continue reading You’ve a choice
The Happiness Quiz
Let’s see how much you know about what makes you happy – 1. What is the one most important factor … Continue reading The Happiness Quiz
Miraculous fun
All these days Calling her “just a friend” All these years Hiding my true self All that time Never really … Continue reading Miraculous fun
Blinded love
oh yes, you might’ve had issues but I did not notice them for you shine so bright with kindness and … Continue reading Blinded love
Does this make sense?
Have you heard this story before? If you have coffee in your cup and someone comes along and shakes you, … Continue reading Does this make sense?
I want to give
I want to show you beauty. I want to give you love. I want to give you pieces of mine … Continue reading I want to give
#kindness
One should treat others in a way they would stay Because they want to Not because they’ve no other option … Continue reading #kindness
poetry
i am ready to move mountains for you i am willing to make your life heaven all I want is … Continue reading poetry
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I feel lucky to have friends Who help me reconnect with my friends and family After arguments with them, when … Continue reading …
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When she makes a mistake The newly wedded bride is asked by her in-laws “Didn’t your parents teach you anything?” … Continue reading …
How do you motivate others?
“if you don’t study hard, you will end up broke and unemployed. look at your friends how good they are … Continue reading How do you motivate others?
When you feel like you’re not enough..
Do you feel this? Like everyone around you has it better… They have better relationships than you do They have … Continue reading When you feel like you’re not enough..
Patriarchy
She dreamt of starting her own boutique, she had a good fashion sense and could stitch really well She wanted … Continue reading Patriarchy
Love and ambitions
Sometimes I wonder how my life would have been had I not taken the road less travelled by, had I … Continue reading Love and ambitions
Forest of Enchantments
You haven’t understood a woman’s life.. the heartbreak at the core of her joys, her unexpected alliances and desires, her … Continue reading Forest of Enchantments
this helps me get back up, always
I have noticed one thing. Every time I feel sad, lonely, gloomy There this one thing that cheers me up … Continue reading this helps me get back up, always
Miraculous Ladybug
Any Miraculous fans here? Well, count me in too! Yesterday my sister was sooooo excited for the Miraculous New York … Continue reading Miraculous Ladybug
It’s all about the journey
Will you be happy after winning a lottery? Hell yes! Let me rephrase How long do you think you will … Continue reading It’s all about the journey
Do you know what makes you happy?
When will you be happy? Think about it…. Maybe you’d come up with something like – when I get a … Continue reading Do you know what makes you happy?
Know better do better quotes
You allow yourself to be in a state of openness. You witness what is going on, you hang loose, you … Continue reading Know better do better quotes
Patience? What is that?
Uffff What will happen? When will it happen? How will will happen? Will it even happen? When exactly? What if … Continue reading Patience? What is that?
Musings
In my school on parents teachers meeting or report day, one thing teachers never forgot to tell.. Where we lack … Continue reading Musings
Know better do better quotes
It is doubtful whether any heavier curse could be imposed on man than the complete gratification of all his wishes … Continue reading Know better do better quotes
Just saying
How do you deal with people whose behaviour you don’t approve of? Especially when that member is of importance, your … Continue reading Just saying
Know better do better quotes
Indicators of spiritual growth – 1. Your life flows with effortless spontaneity 2. Love is becoming the motivating factor of … Continue reading Know better do better quotes
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