letting go of expectations, embracing reality and trying to get better every day! ❤️
If you are facing a setback –
Something out of your control
You don’t know how to deal with it
You feel helpless
When things get tough
Just remind yourself –
You have a choice
You can surrender or you can use it to grow
Most of the times
When giving in seems like the natural thing to do
At that time
Even reminding yourself
That you can choose otherwise
You have control
Over your actions
You can emerge stronger through this
Helps you actually gain control
And emerge like phoenix
Sometimes you are the bad guy
Sometimes you hurt others
Sometimes you act in a rude way
When you realise it was your fault,
What do you do?
You feel the urge to blame others
You feel the urge to deny everything
You feel the urge to argue and fight
But in those moments
You deep down know
It was your doing
Instead of trying to cover it and protect your “ego”
Take some time to reflect
To see where you went wrong,
To understand why you did what you did
And finally
Accept your doing and apologise and improve henceforth
Personal development is hard, but that’s what counts
Sometimes the best thing you can do is accept the responsibility for your actions. Even if you feel embarrassed for a while, you feel a weight of “not apologising” lifted from your heart. That matters in the long run….
