How do you deal with people whose behaviour you don’t approve of?
Especially when that member is of importance, your boss, or your colleague or even a family member?
Seriously what do you do?
Tbh I find it really hard to deal with these people.
With all people actually, I don’t know… I guess I am not so good at dealing with everyone
If our vibe matches?
Great. You will get to see the real me
But if it doesn’t
I might not even feel like talking to you
Idk why this happens. It’s weird… Like I kinda feel suffocated…if I’m forced to do something I don’t want to do
I am not rude as such, if the person still talks to me I will reply and all.. I’ll be good
But I won’t feel like initiating conversation or like being good and smiling all the time with that person who I don’t even like.
I have a friend who smiles and genuinely is a happy person. Even in front of the people who trouble her, or those she has problems adjusting with…
Idk how she manages that
To be so optimistic and positive
Sometimes I wish I was more of that person….
It’s not that she fakes and I’m the one being real and honest
It’s that… She is much better adjusting with all this
I can’t do that. Idk why
I want to be on good terms with everyone, I genuinely want to… But I just can’t stand some behaviours of people and I don’t know what to do then
Especially problem arises when they are older than you and have authority…
You can’t even tell them anything… They just turn the point around and everything is your fault… And then you feel bad
Ik yelling or breaking away is not the point
The person is not completely bad
But yeah…. I feel trouble adjusting (is it too millennial of me?!)
Maybe thinking about the good things they’ve done for me or reminding myself of all the good qualities they have would work.
I am still trying.
I hope I improve my relationship with this person. Matters a lot to me❤️
But seriously, I find relationships very confusing. Not romantic, every type of relationship. Even friendships some times.
Like you don’t have clue what to do….
It takes lot of time to analyse what they did wrong, where I was mistaken.. and I want to be honest here so it really takes time breaking the ego barrier and accepting my fault… Because I don’t want to loose the person.
So idk… I think a lot… It becomes too confusing
But I’m still learning to adjust…. Still learning to maintain relationships
Do you guys have any tips or anything? What do you do in such situations? Can you relate with this or just me?
Please tell me you can relate :p