10 things we all have in common

1. We experience more or less the same set of emotions. This helps us understand how the other person is feeling, because at some point in life to more or less extent, we have felt the same thing.

2. We have our past. This is how we can trace the reason behind most of our actions and thoughts. This contributes in making us who we are. Everyone has their own past, things that happened earlier that have lead them to be where they are right now.

3. We have our own fears. Maybe your fear is about something that happened in childhood that haunts you till this day or something that you are scared of happening to you because you’ve seen it happen to someone close to you. Fear is a emotion we all share.

4. We want to be liked by people around us. We are social beings by nature. We need social connection that helps us survive and thrive. We all crave human connection and bonding.

5. We have our insecurities. “You might not like the way your body looks, guess what, even the picture perfect person is insecure about something.”

6. We want someone to listen to us. Isn’t that the truth? You want someone who will be there by your side and listen and care. We share the same need to be heard, seen and noticed.

7. We want to smile and enjoy life. I don’t think anyone wants to be grumpy every single day. We constantly want to experience positive emotions and feel satisfied with life.

8. We desire rewards for our hardwork. It is a tendency we all share to expect something nice or at least acknowledgement for the work we have done. Only exception for this is altruistic behaviour. Where we act/serve, without expecting anything in return.

9. We struggle. We struggle with something or the other. Sometimes our struggle is visible, sometimes we struggle in silence. Struggle is something we all experience and we all need to go through to live a fulfilling life.

10. We need love. From our friends, romantic partner and family members. We need love and connection. We need to feel like we belong.

After reading this list of few things that we call go through, remember next time that you are not alone in your struggle. You are alone for needing love and connection. It is universal isn’t it?

When things get hard for us, we try to even accept that it is okay to struggle. “You have just been through …. It is okay if you are struggling. Don’t feel bad or left out just because people don’t share their struggle these days as they share their success.”

These things should bring us closer and help us understand eachother, because chances are that others might want to be treated the same way you wanted when you were in a similar situation.

One thought on “10 things we all have in common

  1. SMiLes Dear Vrunda As Per Number One Now
    Of All the Emotions We May HaVE iN Common

    Life Tends to Really Begin or End As Humanity

    Depending On How We Come to Regulate

    Our Emotions and Integrate Our Senses

    in Synergy of Feeling Life

    Together

    ‘In Synch’

    of Mutual Understanding
    of Empathy Both Affective

    And Cognitive Able to Feel Each
    Other’s Emotions Through Affective
    Empathy Other Mammals Experience

    Too And With Life Experience Moving,
    Connecting, And Co-Creating With Our
    Mirror Neurons, Neuro-Chemicals, And

    Neurohormones Working in Synch Together

    This Way Including Adrenaline and Oxytocin
    And Endorphin Neurohormones and Serotonin
    And Dopamine Neurochemicals to Just List 5
    Major General Parts of Material Reductionist

    Ways of Seeing the Parts of the Human Condition within

    The Thing The Feeling The Sense Really Is if We Don’t Both

    Dance In Non-Verbal

    Communication

    And Actually

    Voice Our

    Human Condition

    In the Rhythm of Vocal

    Song Naturally Together

    We Do Lose Our Human Condition

    By Degrees of Devolving in One Lifetime Now…

    Where We No Longer In Cognitive Empathy
    Are Actually Able to Walk in FlesH and Blood
    Bare And Shoe’d Feet Of Other Humans Now

    And True This is a Large Part of Why So many
    Folks Live Life Frowning Really So Many Have
    Lost the Art of What Human Even Means in Meaning And Purpose Yes

    Moving, Connecting, Co-Creating For REAL IN FLESH AND BLOOD

    FOR IT’S TRUE ThERE IS NO ‘META-REALITY’ MORE BEAUTIFUL

    THAN FLESH AND BLOOD CONNECTING FOR REAL NOW

    IN FREE
    DANCE
    AND AND
    SONG IN ALL THE
    WAYS THAT MAY
    COMES MOVING
    CONNECTING CO-CREATING
    TOGETHER NOW AS ART OVER

    SCIENCE

    for real

    Not Losing
    What is FlesH and
    Blood Real to What
    May Otherwise Be
    Shallow And Vapid Indeed…

    Of Course Developing ComPassion For All…

    In Other Words, We Do Really Need to Both
    Find and Do LoVE iN Common Inhaling Peace
    Exhaling LoVE iN JoY oF LiGHT Together Free iN FLESH AND

    BLOOD

    FOR
    REAL
    With SMiLes..:)

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