Hmm… That’s a tricky question.
Why did I love him?
Because he is a wonderful person. There were a few qualities that I found in him that I did not see in anyone else. He is the kindest person I know. He is always ready to help others. He has a beautiful smile and kind heart.
These qualities are surely attractive. But would I love someone else having the similar qualities in the same way that I loved him? Probably not. Definitely not.
It was also the way he invested in me and understood me. It was also the fact that he was there for me when no one else was. It was also how he saw me in my worst but chose to hold me and be with me instead of getting away from me.
These things do add up. This is why he is so special to me because we invested in eachother. He took care of me and I did everything to make him happy.
But then again, would I love everyone who invests in me? I don’t think so. Not like this. Not this passionately. Maybe it’s just a connection. Maybe it’s luck. You fall in love and then you grow in love. Sometimes you learn and sometimes you cherish love. Its a special bond that develops and deepens when both are ready for it.
Maybe the bonds are made in heaven. And you can’t choose who you love. Sometimes they are a reflection of you, sometimes they are compatible to you.
But staying in love takes effort. You need to work together and help eachother as lovers and life partners. That is where the real struggle comes in. You need to adapt constantly and understand eachother. You need to be kind and gentle. Adventurous and funny. Loving and caring.
But one thing is for sure – All of this can be a fun ride with someone you love and someone who loves you back.
As long as I got you and me, Moving through this world as a two man team. I’ll always have everything I need…