Note to self – 6 (when you don’t get what you want)

That frustration you experience when you’re trying hard but still not getting what you want..

When you are so passionate about something and want it badly, still you have to wait…

Ever felt that?

It’s happening with me.

After lot of efforts to change my mood, I wrote this – (something I really needed to hear)

Dear Self,

I am proud of you for the efforts you’re putting in to get this.

I understand how badly you want it. And I know you will get it soon.

Keep going, I’m here to cheer you. You are doing great.

I know it’s not working.

But something that’s more important than success is the process of getting there. Make sure you enjoy the grind, the process, try to have some fun and keep going.

There is no ray of light now, but I can promise you, if you keep going your sunshine is not far away.

This frustration that you’re experiencing now, remember one day you will be telling people how you overcame it and “made it to the top

By the time, try to improve your game. See what else you have to learn, what risks you can take, this is the time you have nothing to loose. Just give it your all and keep faith.

Your future is bright!

Cheering for you,

Me

50 responses to “Note to self – 6 (when you don’t get what you want)”

  1. I love how you brought out the fact it was okay not to know but keep trying. The positive approach is wonderful to read and see Vrunda. Awesome to read and learn !!

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    1. I’m so happy to hear you found it helpful in a way. Thanks a lot for your kind words James❤️🙏
      I appreciate it
      Hope you have a fantastic day ahead🌸💕

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      1. I am happy as well Vrunda. You are welcome for the kind words you deserve them. I am having a fantastic Thursday. Hope you had a fabulous day Vrunda.

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  2. I really like your approach to the situation. That’s exactly what was needful at that moment, encouraging yourself, telling yourself that you’re proud of you even in the face of frustration. We all need this step to be able to remain positive and hopeful in times of stress and hopelessness.

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    1. It’s hard to do so at times. But one things I’ve learnt from writing these letters is that you can be the person to yourself that you need. You can say the comforting words to yourself you need to hear and believe in them❤️
      It just feels awesome after doing so💕
      Thank you for your time and kind words Florence!🙏
      Love to hear from you

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      1. I think writing it down makes it a lot easier than saying it would and that’s what I’ll definitely do when next I feel the same way. Thanks for sharing your experience with us.

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      2. Yeah! Writing makes it more clear and precise.
        It will definitely help you!😊

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  3. That is an impressive note to self. Totally positive and motivating..✨ Keep inspiring✨✍️

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    1. Thank youuuu so much!!🙏
      I’m really glad you liked it!
      Appreciate your kind words❤️❤️

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  4. You will get whatever you want… Keep working for it!!! 😊👍

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    1. You said it!
      Thank you for reading Ayush!❤️

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  5. I am going through a similar phase and these words just made my day. Thanks Vrunda 🙂
    Have a nice day!

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    1. Oh really? We should talk about it! Haha… And support each other.
      Thank you sooo much for your kind words Pratik!❤️🙏
      Have a beautiful day ahead 🌸💕

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      1. Yeah, always remember inside every delay is a blessing. 😁

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    1. Thank you so much!!♥️
      What’s your name buddy?

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      1. Nice name,.. unique too!

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      2. Just like yours 😉

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      3. Hehe.. yes!🙌

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  6. So inspirational!

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    1. Thanks a lot!!❤️❤️❤️

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      1. My pleasure!

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    Susana Cabaco

    Thank u ❤

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    1. My pleasure!♥️🙏

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  8. This is such an awesome note. So positive and inspiring. Thank you so much for sharing it with all of us! 🙂

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    1. Soo glad you liked it Krishnapriya!
      Thank you so much for your kind words and encouragement ❤️♥️🙏
      Means a lot

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      1. i linked my new post to your post on “money and happiness” did you get that link? Thank YOU for always sharing sweet inspiration to uplift all of us. 🙂

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      2. Yeah I saw… I’ll just reply to all the comments and check your post
        You’re so kind my friend!❤️

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      3. Absolutely NO rush. Take your time. 🙂

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      4. Btw, what’s your name?😅
        I mean what do I call you?

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      5. Okay! I thought it’s just the name of blog coz you write about Krishna..
        So confirmed!
        Hope you don’t mind

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      6. No, not at all. 🙂 BTW, one of the names of Tulsi devi is your name and another is Krishnapriya. 🙂

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      7. Oh really!😍 Wow! What a coincidence ♥️
        We both are dear to Lord Krishna 🙏

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      8. It’s so nice to connect with you, my friend!

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      9. Likewise! Wish you a beautiful evening 🙂

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      10. It was really nice! Thank you! Hope you had a nice time too❤❤

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      11. Thank you so much!!♥️🙏

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  9. This is so lovely, Vrunda! I really needed to read this. Thank you for the wonderful motivation! ☺️💛

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    1. Glad it helped you, Ellen! Thank you so much for your kind words ❤️🙏

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  10. I like your self reflective posts Vrunda❤ . They are wonderful to connect with oneself in awareness Yes and you said it well here… Enjoy the journey and keep going! 👍

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    1. Yes! Glad you like it so much! Thank you so much for your kind words and encouragement my friend!!🙏♥️

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    Mathew Philip

    Loved it

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    1. Thank you so much Matthew!❤️
      Appreciate your visit

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