When you are used to…

When you are used to getting rude remarks

Kindness seems like bliss

When you are used to hear him say “Oh I love you so much! Why do you always make me angry?”

It feels good when someone says “I am sorry, I was wrong. I won’t do that again. Please forgive me honey”

When you have experienced him insulting you in front of your friends,

It feels warm when someone gives you heartfelt praise in front of your friends

When you are used to him saying “This can’t work between us, I am done!”

It feels nice when someone says “I’m here to stay”

When you are used to him make you feel uncomfortable about your true self

You feel so happy when someone truly understands you and accepts you, just as you are

When you are used to hear him say “You will never be someone I deserve.. you are imperfect”

Your heart overflows with love when someone says “no one has felt you the way I have…”โค๏ธ

ยฉ Vrunda Chauk

53 responses to “When you are used to…”

    1. Thanks a lot Abhin!๐Ÿ˜Š

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  1. Lovely!!โคโค

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    1. Thank you Shivani!๐Ÿ˜Šโค๏ธ

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  2. Waao.. poignant ๐Ÿ‘Œ
    When u r used to feel worthless… Even a small ‘u r important’ gesture gives u butterflies..

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    1. Yesss!โค๏ธ
      So true!

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  3. Loved it…โ™ฅ๏ธ

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    1. So glad you liked it!โค๏ธ

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      1. โ™ฅ๏ธ๐Ÿ˜Š

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  4. Nice words๐Ÿ˜Š

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    1. Thank you Jyoti!๐Ÿ˜Š

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      1. Welcome Vru๐Ÿ˜Š

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      2. I like it when friends call me Vru.. Even the ones I’ve just met๐Ÿค—

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      3. ๐Ÿ˜Š๐Ÿค—

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  5. Really cute one! ๐Ÿ’–

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    1. Thanks a lot Ekta!๐Ÿ˜Šโค๏ธ

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  6. Emotional yet logical. Amazing portrayal.

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    1. Thank you so much Kalyan!๐Ÿ˜Š

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      1. Mostly welcome ๐Ÿ™‚

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      2. Happy weekendโฃ๏ธ

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      3. You too Vrunda. I would be working most of the time though.

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      4. Thank you! Have a productive weekend!

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      5. Haha yeah, thanks ๐Ÿ™‚

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  7. yes…but after some point…when one begins to listen to the self…one no longer will care about what others says…for the pure self knows what it is to be…

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    1. Thank you for your thoughtful comment Rajini!๐Ÿ˜Š๐Ÿ™

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  8. Excellently expressed ๐Ÿ™‚

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    1. Thanks a lot Atul!๐Ÿ˜Š

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  9. Amazingly beautiful dear โค๏ธ

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    1. Thank youuu so much!โค๏ธ
      Appreciate your kind words ๐Ÿ™๐Ÿ˜Š

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  10. Beautifully written!๐Ÿ’•

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    1. Thank you so much Priya!๐Ÿ˜Šโค๏ธ

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      1. Pleasure! โค๐Ÿค—

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  11. Absolutely beautiful โค๏ธโค๏ธโค๏ธ

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    1. Thanks Sakshi! Glad you liked it!๐Ÿ˜Šโค๏ธ

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  12. Lovely โค๏ธ

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    1. Thank you!๐Ÿ˜Šโค๏ธ

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  13. Such a sweet little writeup. ๐Ÿ’™๐Ÿ’™Truly loved reading it๐Ÿ˜

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    1. Glad you liked it Sid! Thank you for reading!๐Ÿ˜Šโค๏ธ

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      1. ๐Ÿ’™๐Ÿ’™ My absolute pleasure

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  14. You are most welcome Vrunda you continue to inspire everyone with what you write ๐Ÿ‘

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    1. I deeply appreciate your kind words and encouragement my friend! Means a lot! Much gratitude ๐Ÿ™

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  15. It’s my pleasure to respond with my thoughts when I see posts like this. Thank you.

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    1. Pleasure is mine!๐Ÿค—
      have a great weekend Rajini!๐Ÿ˜Š

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      1. Thank you.. same to you ๐Ÿ‘

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  16. Beautifully written!

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    1. Thank you so much Samyak!๐Ÿ˜Š

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  17. True. But it is also important for the other one to shout out when you are doing something wrong or acting incorrectly because we never see ourselves from a different point of view. Itโ€™s also very important to have that person near who will have the courage to tell you these because no one will. There was one video on Youtube about love which stated: โ€œIโ€™ll show you the worst of me, but try to give you the best of me because you donโ€™t deserve any lessโ€. So this is how love works, two people working on that.
    Anyway, amazing post, everyone who has this is lucky โค

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    1. Yes, there’s a fine line between telling you your shortcomings and making you feel worthless, all the time.
      Thank you so much for your feedback Mika!โค
      Appreciate it

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      1. Correct, we always have to be very attentive in order not to cross that line ^_^

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      2. Agree!๐Ÿ˜Š

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