When you are used to…

When you are used to getting rude remarks

Kindness seems like bliss

When you are used to hear him say “Oh I love you so much! Why do you always make me angry?”

It feels good when someone says “I am sorry, I was wrong. I won’t do that again. Please forgive me honey”

When you have experienced him insulting you in front of your friends,

It feels warm when someone gives you heartfelt praise in front of your friends

When you are used to him saying “This can’t work between us, I am done!”

It feels nice when someone says “I’m here to stay”

When you are used to him make you feel uncomfortable about your true self

You feel so happy when someone truly understands you and accepts you, just as you are

When you are used to hear him say “You will never be someone I deserve.. you are imperfect”

Your heart overflows with love when someone says “no one has felt you the way I have…”❤️

© Vrunda Chauk

53 thoughts on “When you are used to…

  1. True. But it is also important for the other one to shout out when you are doing something wrong or acting incorrectly because we never see ourselves from a different point of view. It’s also very important to have that person near who will have the courage to tell you these because no one will. There was one video on Youtube about love which stated: “I’ll show you the worst of me, but try to give you the best of me because you don’t deserve any less”. So this is how love works, two people working on that.
    Anyway, amazing post, everyone who has this is lucky ❤

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    1. Yes, there’s a fine line between telling you your shortcomings and making you feel worthless, all the time.
      Thank you so much for your feedback Mika!❤
      Appreciate it

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