Note to self – 4 (letting go)

There are times when you realise you can’t carry on anymore with someone.

There are times when you realise your paths are now different. You want something else from life and they want something else.

There are times when you realise it’s hard to continue with them.

It’s the time when you need to ask yourself –

Am I holding on to something I need to let go of?

Dear me,

I know how much you want him. I know how much time you’ve spent planning future with him.

I understand the pain you are going through while ending this.

But you can’t stay like this forever. He isn’t treating you well, you need to choose what is right for yourself.

He may or may not change, but you can’t let yourself suffer until he decides to treat you the way you deserve to be treated.

You need to stand up for yourself. It’s time. It’s better to let go than to hold on.

You owe it to yourself. While loving him, don’t forget you deserve your love first.

Don’t be scared that you might be alone. Yes you might be lonely for a while, but this too shall pass. You will feel free and in due course of time… Happy..

Sometimes it’s better to forgive and let go and move on with your life…..

With love and care,


31 thoughts on “Note to self – 4 (letting go)

  1. Yess.. letting go is a difficult task but at some point you have to realise if it is worth to hold onto someone/something. Glad to see you are learning to let go. It helps a lot. Good one Vrunda. Have a nice day. 🧘‍♀️

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  2. message beautifully conveyed Vrunda…but it’s not easy…no one knows how long it will last..this is really a life long learning…so many people come and go along our way…but not even a handful stick on…but if one do find such a trustworthy person…one should hold on at all costs..for it’s very rare to find such a person…and that person is much much valuable than any other material asset in this world!


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