Note to self – 3 (healthy perspective)

There are so many ways to look at things. In fact there are many many different perspectives about one single thing.

Sometimes we don’t know the truth or we partially know the truth and we assume the rest.

For example –
You didn’t get selected in a interview.

There can be many reasons!

What do you tell yourself?

What are your thoughts?

“I’m not good enough.. I don’t have the necessary skills… I don’t think I’ll ever get the job”

Now these can be your immediate thoughts… I get it. 90% people might have this as their first response

But problem arises when you stick to those thoughts for… days, months or even years!

Can you imagine? You let that one single failure, one problem, one thought define your entire life.

You need to ask yourself –

Will thinking in this way help me?

Here’s “the story” you need to tell yourself –

Dear me,

I think you shouldn’t be so hard on yourself. There are so many other ways to look at this.

I realise this is not the end of the world. I have many chances ahead of me. I won’t give up.

I’m just getting started. I might face some difficulties but I need to keep going and hope for the best.

I believe it’s me who has the power to choose my perspective. I choose the optimistic perspective. It may or may not turn out well, but its much better than having pessimist attitude and giving up.

By looking at the bright side I will at least get the motivation to keep going. Which I need the most right now.

And who knows…
Some problems are a blessing in disguise! 😉

You are blessed honey!

With love,
Me

42 responses to “Note to self – 3 (healthy perspective)”

  1. Not some All problems are a blessing in disguise

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    1. Depends on perspective. You can take them as a blessing or curse.

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  2. Absolutely.. all is in our minds.. great write.. 👏🏼👏🏼👍🏼😇👌🏼👌🏼

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    1. Thank you so much!!!🙏 So glad you liked it!
      Have a beautiful day my friend!🌈💖

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  3. Needed to hear this – NOW! “You are blessed honey!” Smile in the love of the Universe. That’s why you are here. Its ok if you forget, get back to smiling and know that all is well, in this journey of love!!!(ok – i just added my note to Self to yours, sweet Vrunda – hope that is ok!) Thank YOU, for yet another lovely and inspiring write. 🌹

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    1. Loved Loved your message!!❤️❤️❤️
      So beautiful Krishnapriya.
      And I’m soooo happy it was helpful to you💕
      Thank you sooo much for your kind words dear.
      You made me smile.
      Have a lovely day❤️💖🌈
      Keep smiling!😊

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      1. Yes, i am — and you too! i heard recently — we see that world, not as it is but on how we are (our perspective) – so why not see it with a smile on our face, love and light in our heart? Thank you again!!! And again for the positivity bring to all of us. 🙏💕

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      2. So true Krishnapriya. It’s all about perspective. That’s how we share our light and see our light in others 💖🌟 It’s my pleasure to help you guys 😊
        Thank you for being here ❤️

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  4. Ramyani Bhattacharya Avatar
    Ramyani Bhattacharya

    This is an amazing post dear! Optimistic perspective is the best. And I am sure your magical words will make everyone look at the brighter side. 😊

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    1. Aww… I really hope that happens. That would mean the world to me.
      Thank youuu for your kind words and encouragement as always Ramyani.
      You make my day❤️

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        Ramyani Bhattacharya

        😋💕

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    1. Thank you so much my friend!!🙏❤️

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  5. Excellent Excellent Excellent….. 👌👌👌

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    1. Thanks a million Tanusri!!🙏❤️

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  6. Haha, I could relate with the example as I have been through this phase during the initial stage of finding the job. Yes, being optimistic helps and you learn with every rejection.

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    1. Glad you could connect Pratik! Thank you for your kind words!!❤️
      Have a wonderful day ahead!🌈💖

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      1. Yeah, have a good day Vrunda! 🙂

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      2. Thank you Pratik!😊

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  7. Really needed this today! Thank you!

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    1. Glad to know this was helpful!❤️

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  8. Yes sometimes some problems are a blessing in disguise ! I believe that my dear. Your such a lovely positive psychologist. I’ll never forget this precious message 💕💕💕💕 Thank you so much my dear ❤

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    1. So happy it helped you didi! Thank you soooooo much for your kind words and encouragement.❤️ Means a lotttt!!!!
      Have a fantastic day ahead didi!🌈💖

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      1. My loves and blessings and supports are always with you my sweet angle 😇🌹❤🎀💕

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  9. beyondimagination25 Avatar
    beyondimagination25

    Feeling very motivated after reading this.
    As truly written by Shri Harivansh Rai Bachchan “Leharon se darkar noka par nahi hoti…Aur koshish karne walon ki har nahi hoti”.

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    1. Sola aane sahi baat ki hai..😊👍
      I’m so happy to know it was helpful. Thank you so much for your kind words!!💖🙏
      Btw what’s your name?😅

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      1. beyondimagination25 Avatar
        beyondimagination25

        Karan Sharma

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      2. Hello Karan! It’s nice to know you.😊

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      3. beyondimagination25 Avatar
        beyondimagination25

        Thanks😊

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      4. beyondimagination25 Avatar
        beyondimagination25

        You’re welcome.

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  10. I love this- it’s like a letter to yourself. I’m going to try this whenever I feel low 💕

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    1. So happy to know it was helpful. Thank you so much for your kind words Ash!💖

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  11. Thank you for this beautiful post❣…positivity is the key..
    Stay Happy dear 😊

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    1. Appreciate your kind words and encouragement my friend! Means a lot!🙏
      Thank you! Stay blessed ❤️

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  12. Happy to read your words dear angel 😊👼❤

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    1. Aww… Krishna that’s surely a beautiful thing to say❤
      Thank you so much for your kind words!!🙏

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  13. Amazing post Vrunda.. A kind of motivation I should say..

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  14. 🔥🔥💕💕💕💕💖💖💖

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